Letting go of resistance and learning to trust...

Letting go of resistance and learning to trust...wow! It's a biggie but something that has come up for me recently and I think it is a lesson that needs to be shared and I am hoping it resonates with you. 


Over the past few months things have been shifting and changing for me and I have had the urge to fight it and resist the unknown that is ahead for me. I want to control everything, know when things are going to happen and I think I know best...when really it is all bullshit! I need to let go!


I have learnt the hard and long way, which is completely okay and it sits well with me because I now look back and laugh at myself thinking "what were you thinking, you have no control. Just let things be as they are".


The lessons I have learnt recently haven't resulted from anything bad happening but just the universe showing me in subtle ways that I can't control everything and that I need to be patient. 


"Everything will happen in its own time!

We all think we know what is best when really that couldn't be more far from the truth, the universe has other plans for us and we need to learn to be okay with that. We need to stop the pushing and start the embracing. 


Have you had a bad break up with a partner but you keep telling yourself that this isn't right, I need to be in that relationship? This is you trying to control what is happening to you but sometimes we just don't have that control. Now you look back on that relationship, have learnt the lesson from it and are glad that it had an expiry date? 


"The universe knows what is best for us even if we don't think so at the time.



When I had this revelation I felt tension move from my shoulders. My mind became clear. Patience had finally come into my life. 


+ Let's trust what is in store for us. 
+ Let's accept the hard situations that we don't understand. 
+ Let's be open to the next step in our lives. 
+ Let's be grateful for all the wonderful lessons that we have learnt and we are still yet to learn. 


Life isn't meant to be easy! It is a roller coaster of ultimate ups and life shattering lows but just know that there is a reason for it happening and even if you don't know what it is at that moment, you will learn it eventually. 



What lessons have you learnt the hard way? Have you had a light bulb moment of releasing the resistance in your life? Share with me in the comments below, I would love to hear from you as always...



Be happy & healthy,